In the beginning…
Within a mother’s womb, the miracle of life finds a place to grow.
For many women, the call of motherhood begins at a very young age. The maternal tug within her heart is strong and undeniable. Through her own unique experiences, she hears this call and by the will of God, she is blessed with children and finds herself raising a family.
Some women are career oriented and the desire for rearing children may come later in life. They eventually discover their biological clock ticking and, God willing, they too find themselves with the blessing of children.
Not all women, however, are called to motherhood. Through personal circumstances, health issues and freedom to choose, they may be called in other ways to mentor in maternal service. Adoption, of course is very noble and gratifying. There is something very special in a loving aunt or Godmother. It is always beneficial to have someone in our lives where the bond grows deeper than a friendship and resembles the nurturing love of a mother. Both parties are blessed!
As wonderful as it sounds, most of us know, motherhood can be very challenging at times. It can be difficult to find the balance needed to raise happy children and keep our sanity! We hope to pass down the best of ourselves while attempting to work on personal goals or meet financial demands. We may fall short on some of the motherly attributes needed to be the ‘perfect mom’. Do we hold on too long? Do we let go too soon? Much to pray about.
At the same time, children may have high expectations as they are exposed to unhealthy worldly influences. They painfully grow through various phases of maturity as they seek independence. They may not always be aware or appreciate the sacrifices made for them, until, hopefully later in life. Do they consider how their decisions affect the ones they love? Again, much to pray about.
The Maternal Love of a Mother
Within the womb of the special woman we call Mom, there was a sense of joy, as we were all given the miracle of life. This existing maternal love connection may well be what draws adopted children to seek out their birth parents. The bond is real and everlasting. It is heaven sent and no matter the circumstances, it is something to celebrate.
Since there is no perfection in parenting, we try our best. We can only hope and pray our kids turn out well. We look for role models to guide and teach us how to be the perfect mom. If there was one.
Perhaps there is.
Perfection can only come from the Perfect One Himself. To fulfill His loving plan of salvation, God the Father needed a sacred and most Holy Mother. Through Immaculate Grace, The Mother of His only Son was born. She, in her free will, chose to accept the bittersweet role of blessed motherhood, with all its uncertainties. She totally relied on God for all the answers. Many of us would agree…
The Blessed Virgin Mary is the perfect role model for all mothers.
Her virtuous life on earth was the apex of her role in God’s eternal plan. However, there is much evidence to believe she continues to intercede for her Son even today, as a loving mother to us all. She represents the feminine side of all God’s people, and yet she is amazingly strong. Do we appreciate the treasure given to us in our Heavenly Mother? Are we experiencing a tug in our hearts to know her more intimately? Prayerfully look to the heavens, for she may only be a breath away!
Mother’s Day draws near. Let us call to mind our mothers.
If mom has left this earth, remember her in prayer. It is the one gift she can still beneficially receive.
If we cannot see our mom, be sure to connect with her. Perhaps, be creative and surprise her in some endearing way!
If we are fortunate enough to be with mom, why not make the day extra special! Hold on to that hug a bit longer and enjoy the moment.
If we quiet our minds and listen prayerfully, we just may hear in our hearts…
Mother Mary whispering words of wisdom… be thankful for our moms and graciously Let it Be!
Blessings to all mothers!
Until our next walk through the garden
Thank you Annie...